The mystery of marriage is that two become “one flesh.” From the moment they are married and their bodies unite, the husband is the head and the wife is the body. This explains, at least in part, why the relationship of God and Christ cannot be reduced to a picture of a leader and a helper. God and Christ are truly one. Jesus said it plainly, “I and the Father are one” (Jn 10:30). Likewise, Christ and the church are one (Jn 17:21). Christ and the church are more closely united than just Savior and
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